Title, Intelligenza emotiva per un figlio. Superbur: Saggi. Author, John Gottman. Publisher, Rizzoli, ISBN, , Length, Intelligenza emotiva per un figlio. Una guida per i genitori by John Gottman, , available at Book Depository with free delivery. Buy Intelligenza emotiva per un figlio. Una guida per i genitori by Joan Declaire, John Gottman, A. Di Gregorio, B. Lotti (ISBN: ) from Amazon’s.
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Listen empathetically and validate the child’s feelings 4. It gives very practical advice that I was able to use immediately in an office setting with noticeable results.
I feel like its a solid book that teaches you first, to figure out what type of parent you are and second, recognize how you as a parent respond to your child’s emotions.
Di GregorioB. Helping the child verbally label emotions 5.
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Positively changes your perspective on parenting. Skim the table of contents, section headings, etc. Jan 23, Miri rated it liked it Shelves: Kids are going to have emotions, for crying out loud, adults do I think this book would be really good for parents who aren’t sure what emotions are acceptable and how to handle their own emotions in relation to their childs’ emotions- clear as mud. No one, especially not my older son, likes emotivs be told what to do! He also emphasizes the role of the family and the father especially, which I found fascinating.
Recognize the emotion as an opportunity for intimacy and teaching 3. Views Read Edit View history. My mind is still reeling from all the literal wisdom I just inhaled.
So, my final recommendation for this book is to not “read” it, but use it as a reference book.
Among these four, Gottman considers contempt the most important of them all. On the other hand, stable couples handle conflicts in gentle, positive ways, and are supportive of each other. But the specific steps might It’s fine. This approach required a significant amount of pondering and evaluation. Sep 03, Natalie rated it really liked it. As a parent I found the book helpful because it gives five “rules” for responding when your child is emotional.
But that expectation is sometimes unreasonable; I need to remember that he needs training and practice to be able to handle his emotions. Mar 19, Natalie rated it liked it Shelves: Now that he has dismissing and disapproving parents on board and laissez-faire and emotion coaching parents boredGottman sets about explaining how a parent switches styles: Amazon Second Chance Pass it on, trade it in, give it a second life.
Overall the information in this book was very helpful and also a bit of a wake up call forme personally.
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I guess this is just a beginners look in to the ideas, and really it’s just going to take practice implementing the ideas. The more positive their perceptions and attitudes were about their marriage and each other, the more stable the marriage.
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Intelligenza emotiva per un figlio. Una guida per i genitori
This book was well thought out and very well researched. Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read. Like instead of telling her to be happy when she’s throwing a tantrum or she goes to bed for a nap, tell her that it’s okay that she’s sad or angry, but if she has a tantrum and isn’t acting nicely she needs to go to her room and calm down and she can come out when she’s calm.
With each chapter I noticed that I was starting to soak in the ideas and principles of emotional riglio.
But if you aren’t ok with yourself feelings these emotions, let alone a child, then you should read it to get on board. Click I Have iTunes bottman open it now. That’s why they can go from laughing to crying in seconds, and screaming with anger to seeming fine a few minutes later.
View More by This Author. Journalist Laurie Abraham also disputed the prediction power of Gottman’s method. Gottman summarised the four critical predictive factors to the risk of the relationship by examples with “Four Horseman” which are Criticism of the personality, Defensiveness, Stonewalling and Contempt.
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But children also need to master their emotions. Being aware of the child’s emotions 2.
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Journal of Family Psychology. Because so much of the work that I do as a therapist is with individuals who present with problems because they do not know how to recognize, name, and effectively cope with their emotions, I believe strongly in the merit of this type of book. Amazon Drive Cloud storage from Amazon. Predicting divorce from an oral history interview”. The book was a great reminder for me why it is so important to take the time and energy to engage with my children and really help them and me understand what they are feeling and how they can best handle it appropriately.
It’s not a parenting book with lots of tips and there’s nothing earth shattering, but it reinforces 5 simple principles which are basically this: The Mathematics of Marriage.